The current `validateNoSetStateInEffects` error has potential false
positives because
we cannot fully statically detect patterns where calling setState in an
effect is
actually valid. This flag `enableVerboseNoSetStateInEffect` adds a
verbose error mode that presents multiple possible
use-cases, allowing an agent to reason about which fix is appropriate
before acting:
1. Non-local derived data - suggests restructuring state ownership
2. Derived event pattern - suggests requesting an event callback from
parent
3. Force update / external sync - suggests using `useSyncExternalStore`
This gives agents the context needed to make informed decisions rather
than
blindly applying a fix that may not be correct for the specific
situation.